Before we dig deeper, it’s important to realise that as social beings, we naturally seek connection and companionship, often forming close relationships with others. However, it is essential to recognize that true happiness cannot be solely reliant on another person.
This digital newsletter aims to shed light on the reasons why one should avoid tying their happiness solely to another individual, emphasizing the significance of self-discovery and personal growth so you can find meaning to your life and be truly happy.
Co dependency is toxic. If your self esteem is tied to another person then that’s not self esteem. In fact, you don’t have any. Men who lack self esteem because they are co dependent are neither manly nor masculine.
Your job as a masculine man is to lead, provide and protect so as a codependent man tying your self esteem to someone else, a feminine woman you’re meant to be of service to, you’re going to find yourself in all kinds trouble. The masculine and feminine energy is ass about and as a result, any woman who knows her self worth will not respect you.
Happiness is a complex emotion that originates from within an individual so how can you find it from external sources? It is an internal state of contentment and fulfillment that should not be solely dependent on external factors. Placing the responsibility of our happiness entirely on another person can lead to disappointment, as human beings are imperfect and fallible by nature. Relying solely on someone else for our happiness can be precarious, as relationships can change or end, leaving us emotionally unstable.
By neglecting our own needs and desires, we risk losing our sense of identity and purpose. Discovering what truly brings us joy and pursuing it independently fosters a stronger foundation for happiness that is not contingent on someone else's presence.
With that being said, lets look closer at how you can find meaning to your own life and as a result build confidence and self esteem that no one can take away from you.
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