"Valentine is coming"
Are you really going to sit at home, lonely?! Is that bothering you?! Find a book to read my dear, there's more knowledge hidden that needs to be found, lol!
"About a month ago, I sent you a dm, …, I shot my shot and you ignored, now Valentine is coming, where is your boyfriend, your mates are getting flowers, chaale ooh , you're so lonely… Abena, Abena, Abena,..."
I'm sure we're all (by that I mean my African sisters and brothers most especially) familiar with the all-time YouTube favorite Choir; Kabusa Oriental Choir's Valentine sound.
I join the many to shout "The pressure is getting worser🤯🤣" as the days hastily pass by and all hearts are looking forward to the ever-famous day of the month of February. The 14th. 💓🥳
Well, I say the pressure is getting worser because help me understand why I have since the first day of February, I have been receiving notifications like this. 😩
On certain days, I am forced to not even react to the messages I see in my chats🤐. To me, it'd feel as though I'm not trying to support a friend's business😶. Don't get me wrong, I'd have loved to promote each and every one of you asking me to in my DMS but I'm governed by some media rules currently and I'd definitely not like to go against myself🤔. So yeah, I wish you well, the very best infact🙌🏾🙏🏾.
Well, today there isn’t much to be said. I'm only here to preach to my fellow Singles 🙈🤣🥰🦋🖤. Yesss!!, Kindly hear me out.
I know how you're feeling because of all the pressure rising, especially from package prices to your "lovey-dovey" friend🤦🏾♀️ who wouldn't keep quiet about what she/he is expecting from their significant other on this year's Valentine. These love🥰 people too dey talk, shaiii!!🥲🤣
There might be that other friend who's dependent on you for help to make a perfect choice of package to surprise her/his partner on Valentine's.
Well, for some of us, na grace of God we dey look forward to, to help carry us past this 14th ooh. 🙇🏾♀️
In the bid of helping someone out or being exposed to these valentine's day pressures, I'd like to emphasize that; "Don't allow their pressure to pressurize / tension you".
Don't worry about what others are doing or saying about Valentine's Day. Remember, this is a day meant to celebrate love, not just romantic love, but the love we have for our family, friends, and even ourselves. Don't feel like you need to conform to society's expectations or be pressured by what others are doing. Instead, focus on treating yourself well and spreading love to those around you.
Take some time to do something special for yourself on Valentine's Day, whether it's a relaxing spa day or a night in with your favorite book or movie. You can also reach out to friends or family members who may also be feeling lonely or single (just like us), and spend the day with them.
Or, why not volunteer your time doing something that supports people in need?🤔
In the end, the most important thing is to find joy and happiness within yourself and not rely on external circumstances or other people to validate your worth. 😎
So, don't let the pressure of Valentine's Day get to you. Embrace the day, celebrate love in all its forms, and most importantly, be kind to yourself.
That’s what I’ll be doing, I hope you do the same. 😍🥳
In case you have new ideas or suggestive ways to help make the day a better one as always, kindly share in the comment section.
As always🥰,
Stay safe and healthy. And don’t forget to spread love always!!💓
Your favorite budafly,😎
NaBi🦋🖤
Without Valentine's day, February would be....well January.😊
Valentine in knust 😎😎😎😎Watch out 😂😂