Emelia is an international theatre-maker and author living in the woods with her family in Canada BC. Her best-selling memoir 'Skid Dogs', growing up rural and wild with her girl gang amidst 1990s rape culture, will be published in the US April 9th, 2024. Order your copy here.
"I can't remember a time I read a book so brave. Maybe never." -Ani Difranco
Tell us about your house
I live in rural British Columbia in a wooden home built in 1982. High sloped cedar ceilings, a sunken family room with wide windows looking out at the mountains of snow. Think ski chalet for a family of 4.
How do you approach designing/furnishing your space? Would you say you have a home style? If so, what is it?
I’m pretty into maximalism right now. I don't want a lot of trinkets and do-dads- but multi-colored blankets, different patterns on pillows, my mothers weaving on the walls, and wicker is my jam right now. I’m about to buy a forest green velvet sectional to finish the look.
What is one piece you would grab if the house was on fire?
Honestly, just the photo albums.
What is one thing you splurged on for your home?
I saved up for really nice cream blinds. Makes the house feel contained and fancy against the cedar trim.
What has your home (or the process of owning/designing etc) taught you?
Septic tanks cost a lot and are necessary. None of the expensive purchases are sexy.
Was there a project or process that was surprising or emotional to you?
My partner put a claw foot tub outside and we run a hose from the kitchen sink to the deck to fill it, so I can have a hot bath at night- and cold plunge in the morning. It's better than a hot tub.
Please explain your favorite ritual, time of day, or room in your home.
Turning off the lights. My mother used to call it "putting the house to bed" which makes me wanna cry a little. But that’s how it feels, walking around, being thankful, saying goodnight.
What challenges do you face in your home?
We are in fire territory and live on a 5-acre cedar forest. It’s terrifying when the sky is filled with embers, landing on my wooden roof.
What feeling does your home bring you?
As a working artist, I was 44 when I bought my first home. Only cramped rentals in the city, with rats and fear of eviction for most of my adult life. So, to have windows and doors and lights that are mine! That cannot be taken from me. To lie in my bed and still be surprised it's not an Air BNB. To dream with my partner about punching out walls for a kitchen when my book becomes a movie (wink wink). To have a place my kids will always return to. My life has been completed with this home. She is the comfort I didn't know I was longing for. We were meant for each other.