Early parenthood is an inherently “unpolarized” experience.
- you become “teammates”.
- you unavoidably view one another in their “role”.
- you “trade time” for individual needs.
AND…
If you’re not making at least a few mins/day to connect with one another with total, unblemished love, adoration and desire beyond the parent role…
All of the above becomes unsustainable and bound for breakdown.
Make space for clumsiness and imperfection in your relationship.
Your standard may be perfect embodiment of masculine/feminine energy
dynamics in their highest and most divine form.
AND there’s the unavoidable psycho-spiritual puberty you and your partner
must trudge through until such mastery is attained.